How to Become More Attractive: 

Darlings, welcome to the world of romance where confidence reigns supreme, and charm becomes your secret weapon. I'm, your go-to sassy posh dating coach, here to share the juiciest tips on how to become a magnetic force that no one can resist. Get ready to channel your inner diva and embark on a journey of self-discovery that will make heads turn and hearts flutter!

1. Embrace Your Authenticity:

Ladies and Gents (but I'm not gonna say both the whole dang time), the first rule of attraction is simple—be yourself! Authenticity is key. Embrace your quirks, passions, and unique qualities. Remember, there's only one fabulous you in this world, so why hide it? Unleash your inner diva and let your true self shine. Confidence and self-assuredness are irresistible.  If you seem to be obsessing about more than manifesting the man of your dreams, you are probably needing to rid yourself of the past person in your mind first. (Or the current one you have your eye on for that matter.) So equip yourself with daily meditation practices. You can find tons on youtube, but some of our favorites are from the Celebrity Love Coach herself Lauren Sugihara, (She has been responsible for helping some of the who's who celebrities find and keep love in hollywood) You can grab 3 of her meditations complimentary (we love that!) just follow this link:

Meditation Bundle

2. Rock Your Personal Style:

Darlings, fashion is your playground. Explore different styles and experiment with outfits that make you feel like a million bucks. Whether it's a killer little black dress or a bold statement accessory, choose pieces that reflect your personality and make you feel absolutely fabulous. Confidence in your personal style is a magnet for attention. Need more help picking outfits? We love the book THE ULTIMATE BOOK OF OUTFIT FORMULAS!

3. Master the Art of Flirty Banter:

Oh, the power of wit and charm! Ladies, never underestimate the art of flirty banter. Engage in playful conversations that leave a lasting impression. Quick comebacks, teasing, and a sprinkle of sass will keep them coming back for more. Remember, humor and intelligence can make you irresistibly captivating. Our Go to Resources for learning how to communicate depend on if you prefer to read or watch. 

The Book "Why Men Love Bitches" is a must have if you want an enlightening read on the subject.

If you are a more visual hands on girl, and want to learn how to become a magnet for men, we have to recommend another gem from the amazing Lauren Sugihara (celebrity love coach). Specifically her "Heartspeak Course-How to Grow Emotional Attraction With a Man" $22 includes bonuses that help you with communication with a man, texting, body language, you name it. We loved it. Great value for the price compared to her more luxurious options that are priced more (probably because her clientele are more high-end and celebrities).

4. Radiate Positivity and Confidence:

Positivity is your secret weapon, my lovelies. No matter what life throws your way, keep your head high and radiate confidence. Embrace your strengths and celebrate your accomplishments. When you exude positivity, you attract positive experiences and people who can't resist your vibrant energy.

Here are our recommendations for books to help you do this:

1. "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale: This classic book teaches practical techniques to overcome negativity and cultivate a positive mindset through faith, belief, and visualization.

2. "Mindset: The New Psychology of Success" by Carol S. Dweck: This insightful book explores the concept of mindset and how it impacts our lives. It provides strategies to develop a growth mindset, embrace challenges, and cultivate resilience.

3. "The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology That Fuel Success and Performance at Work" by Shawn Achor: Drawing from positive psychology research, this book explores how a positive mindset can lead to greater happiness, success, and productivity. It offers practical tips to reframe our thinking and create a positive ripple effect. It still helps in love even though the focus is work.

4. "The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom" by Don Miguel Ruiz: Although not solely focused on positive mindset, this book offers powerful insights on living with integrity and adopting positive beliefs. It presents four agreements that can transform our lives by cultivating self-love and fostering positive relationships.

5. "You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life" by Jen Sincero: This empowering self-help book encourages readers to embrace their inner power and release self-limiting beliefs. It offers practical exercises and mindset-shifting techniques to help readers step into their greatness and live a more fulfilling life.

Remember, each book offers unique perspectives and strategies for developing a positive mindset. Choose the one that resonates with you the most and embark on a transformative journey towards a more positive and empowered life.

5. Cultivate Your Passions:

Nothing is more attractive than a woman who is passionate about her interests and pursuits. Find what sets your soul on fire, whether it's painting, salsa dancing, or hiking. When you cultivate your passions, you become a fascinating individual with a zest for life, drawing others toward your vibrant energy.

1. "Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear" by Elizabeth Gilbert: This inspirational book encourages women to pursue their creative passions fearlessly. It explores the mindset and habits needed to nurture creativity and overcome self-doubt.

2. "Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand in the Sun and Be Your Own Person" by Shonda Rhimes: In this memoir, Shonda Rhimes, the creator of hit TV shows like Grey's Anatomy and Scandal, shares her journey of saying "yes" to new experiences and embracing her passions. It's a motivating read for women looking to step outside their comfort zones.

3. "The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide to Creating Success on Your Own Terms" by Danielle LaPorte: This book guides women in exploring their passions, identifying their core desires, and creating a fulfilling and authentic life. It offers practical exercises and insightful advice for pursuing passion with purpose.

4. "Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead" by Tara Mohr: Designed specifically for women, this book addresses the fears and self-doubt that can hold them back from pursuing their passions and making a difference. It provides tools and strategies to overcome those barriers and step into their power.

5. "The Crossroads of Should and Must: Find and Follow Your Passion" by Elle Luna: This book inspires women to uncover their true passions and follow their "must" instead of settling for societal expectations. It's a visually captivating guide that encourages readers to embrace their unique journey of self-discovery.

These books offer valuable insights, guidance, and exercises to help women tap into their passions and create a life aligned with their true desires. Each one brings a different perspective and approach, so feel free to explore the book that resonates most with you and your journey.

6. Practice Self-Care:

Darlings, self-love is the foundation of becoming irresistibly attractive. Prioritize self-care and pamper yourself regularly. Take bubble baths, indulge in spa treatments, and treat yourself to little luxuries. When you love and care for yourself, others can't help but be drawn to your radiant glow.

1. Darling, Prioritize Your Pampering:

Self-care is non-negotiable, my fabulous ladies! Make it a top priority to indulge in luxurious pampering sessions. Whether it's a bubble bath with rose petals or treating yourself to a decadent spa day, remember, you deserve nothing but the best. Embrace your inner diva and pamper yourself like the queen you are!

2. Glamorous Girl Gang Gatherings:

Who says self-care has to be a solo affair? Gather your glamorous girl gang and plan extravagant self-care gatherings. It could be a ladies' night in, complete with face masks, delicious cocktails, and gossip sessions that would make the Duchess of Cambridge blush. Surround yourself with the women who lift you up and radiate positive energy.

3. Unleash Your Inner Goddess with Movement:

Sweating it out has never been so chic! Embrace the power of movement to nurture your body and soul. Whether it's a sultry dance class or a high-intensity workout, let your body unleash its inner goddess. Remember, darling, exercising isn't just about looking fabulous—it's about feeling fabulous too!

4. Nourish Your Divine Temple:

Indulge in decadent delights that tantalize your taste buds and nourish your divine temple. Whip up delicious, nutrient-packed meals that make your palate sing. Treat yourself to sumptuous salads, luscious smoothies, and tantalizing treats that are as good for your body as they are for your soul. Bon appétit, my posh darlings!

5. Slay the Stress with Mindful Moments:

In this chaotic world, finding moments of peace is an act of rebellion, my stylish ladies. Embrace mindfulness as your secret weapon to slay stress. Practice meditation, take leisurely walks in nature, or simply sit in silence with a cup of tea. These mindful moments will rejuvenate your spirit and leave you ready to conquer the world with poise and grace.

Remember, darling, self-care is the ultimate accessory that completes your fabulousness. So, prioritize yourself, gather your glam squad, and let self-care become an exquisite ritual in your posh lifestyle. You deserve to be pampered, cherished, and loved—especially by the most important person in your life: yourself!

7. Harness Your Intuition:

 I encourage you to trust your inner voice. Listen to your intuition when it comes to love and dating. Your intuition will guide you towards the right connections and help you avoid toxic relationships. Trust your gut instincts, and let your inner diva lead the way to a love that's worthy of your fabulousness.

Harnessing Intuition: Unleashing Your Inner Oracle

Intuition, darling, is the hidden gem within you that holds the power to guide you toward your truest path. To harness this innate gift, you must learn to listen to that soft, whispering voice within. Firstly, create space for stillness and silence. In our bustling world, finding moments of tranquility can be a challenge, but it's essential for tapping into your intuition. Embrace meditation, quiet contemplation, or even a mindful stroll in nature to clear the clutter and create a receptive space for your inner oracle to speak.

Secondly, trust your gut instincts, my stylish confidante. Intuition often communicates through subtle sensations in your body—a flutter in the stomach, a tingling sensation, or a deep knowing. Pay attention to these cues, for they are the language of your intuition. When faced with choices, pause and tune in to what your body is telling you. Trust that inner compass, even when logic tries to sway you. Remember, intuition is your ally, your guide through the twists and turns of life, so embrace it with grace and allow it to illuminate your path.


My dazzling darlings, becoming irresistibly attractive is all about embracing your unique qualities, radiating confidence, and living life with sass and style. Remember, the most attractive thing about you is your authenticity. Unleash your inner diva, follow these sassy tips, and watch as you transform into a magnet for love and adoration. Get ready to conquer the dating world, one fabulous step at a time!

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